Be a good lisener

  We may want to be the speaker in the center stage, and then attract people's attention all the time. No matter where we are, we always dreaming to be the central point of the public. This is very reasonable that we are all eager to be focused. No matter when we are students or in the office, we spare no effort to be the speaker before others. However, we need to be  listner rather than  speaker somtimes. When other people are speaking, we should try to listen to them. At this moment, we'd better listen carefully about what he is saying about. looking his eyes, we listen to him, which shows our  respect to him. This is also to show our politeness. What's more, listen to others could also enable us to know much more other advices and solutions. While with your friends, you should also learn to be a listener. When they are in sorrow or depression, they may want to find someone to share his feeling. He just need someone who are willing to listen to her heart and then understand him. This may be the strongest surpport to him. Therefore, we shouldn't be a speaker all the time, somtimes we need to be a good listener.